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my husband use to tell me that being unhappy is a choice.

I use to argue with him

but I do feel the older I get, that the statement is true.

life is full of crappy things.

but you chose to do this or that and therefore things aren’t going your way.

is it bad karma?
or just lousy choices?

I can see a person getting down and unhappy if they can’t pay their bills or can’t afford a decent home…..

but that person could get a second job…..

more money would mean a better chance of paying the bills and or finding a better place to live.

it is a choice.

For instance as much as I detest my job, I just signed my life way for the next 6 years to pay for a new Chevy Equinox.

I made the choice to do it.

So therefore I am going to be working for at least the next 6 years.

I made the choice.
I could moan and groan about it but I made the choice.

I want to lose weight badly, but every day I willingly know I am sabotaging myself by having something with sugar it in.

I know better and yet I still do it.

I make a choice.

I am not judging anyone who has it rough and is struggling day in and day out.
But there are things one can do to make their lives better.

and some people can’t see the forest for all of the trees blocking it.

and to me that is so very sad………


Posted November 2, 2015 by Marge in heartfelt, ramblings

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