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you know one of the worst things about people getting divorced is the fact that where once upon a time that person was a member of the family, and with the divorce, he no longer is.
That is hard to take at times.
My niece was married over twelve years to a man named Matt.
Well they divorced and I have seen him twice since they divorced around four years ago.
I wasn’t really close to him but I enjoyed visiting with him when I did see him.
He was a real good bull shitter and was always fun to be around.

But alas, since the divorce he has also been divorced from our family

I talked to his brother on face book earlier today and asked him about Matt and told him to tell Matt hi, next time he talked to him.

Matt comes to my thoughts from time to time and I wonder and hope he is doing well.

My nephew is in the process of divorcing his wife and I have talked to her a time or two on face book too.
It is hard at times to let go of the one who wasn’t an original part of the family but definitely isn’t after a divorce.


Posted November 3, 2009 by Marge in ramblings

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